What would you want...?

to say and/or do for someone who found out they have kidney disease. What do you think would relieve with copeing?What would you want...?
I be told I had kidney disease within Jan this year and it freaked me out. Nothing anyone said helped, most didnt know much anyway and not a soul had experienced it! I did lots of research on the web...knowledge is power! Now I grain much better (although not good around it) . I think its basically a matter of the personage coming to terms beside it in their own approach. As well as the research I did, I also asked down professionals lots of questions.
Just man there for them. You don't enjoy to offer guidance, or say anything, but freshly be there to listen.
If I be diagnosed with an malady I wouldnt want you to feel sorry for me, I would newly want to know that you are there for me and you love me.. So I'd do make clear to them that, and just reassure them that they own you're support and prayers.
I would just be in attendance for them and be compassionate towards their feelings and I don`t know tell them a upright joke to formulate them laugh and bring their mind off adjectives the worrying.
I would tell them I am sorry for their situation, I would invite them to enjoin me surrounded by prayer for them, ask them to get a second inference of the matter, look into if I could be a doaner minus risk to myself, once i did all that , I would look knotty for ways to make them not become the cancer but handle the cancer, so I guess I would buy them a can of Kidney beans and eat them next to them, telling them adjectives the while, these are fresh kidneys, eat them and win well :)